„The first agreement is the most important and the most difficult to respect. It is so important that with only this first agreement, you will be able to transcend at the level of existence that I call heaven on earth. The first agreement is to be irreproachable with your word. It`s a difficult agreement because we often make assumptions and the assumptions are so natural. We are usually quite impressed with our own ideas. We believe our assumptions are true. The third agreement is, „Don`t make assumptions.“ Do you remember the old proverb about the word – it`s u and me one? This agreement is the same idea with a more spiritual inclination. „The third agreement is not to make assumptions. We tend to make assumptions about everything. The problem with assumptions is that we think they are the truth. One would swear they are true. Brain fog or the chaos of mitotes causes us to see and hear only what we want to see and hear. Dreams are destroyed if they are based on assumptions. When the truth is revealed, the dreamer is devastated.
Making assumptions about your relationship can be a fatal blow. The parties assume what others think and think they agree with each other. The four agreements show us that there is another way. By freeing ourselves from social structures and expectations, we can make new deals for ourselves. By making a pact with these four key agreements, an individual can dramatically influence the amount of happiness they feel in their life, regardless of external circumstances.  In this article, we will present a brief summary of The Four Agreements, a fascinating book by Don Miguel Ruiz. But first, a few words about why you should take care of it. If you like the job or task you do, you`re going to do your best without even trying….